I'm not asking you to be 100% right all the time. If it doesn't seem ableist to you, don't warn -- but also be prepared to add a warning if someone asks for it. That's all. That's really all I'm asking. I really, really don't understand why this is such a big deal for people, and I'm sorry if there's some reason I'm not seeing, but I've yet to have someone explain to me why this is so difficult.
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