The reason I'm not specifying the adjective form of "crazy" as well is because I, as a mod, do not have the energy to check each comment for it and there is so much argument about it that I would rather leave it to individuals to make their own calls unless it becomes a problem in terms of people feeling threatened or getting hurt.
This kink meme is not a safe space. I am merely asking people to be courteous, which is apparently too much for some people to handle. There is absolutely no way I can be everywhere at once and read every comment, even with the whole mod team. Adding a warning takes seconds, it's not that hard, I don't understand why it's such an issue.
I don't want to delete comments. I would rather do pretty much anything than have to resort to that. But I also don't want people to feel they can't come here because they don't know what to expect, and if everyone just uses their judgement and leaves warnings where necessary, then there's no issue.
And as for What if it's a story told from the point of view of someone who would notice that feature of Charles first and think of him that way after?, I'm only asking you to warn for it. That's all.
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Date: 2011-06-19 12:55 am (UTC)This kink meme is not a safe space. I am merely asking people to be courteous, which is apparently too much for some people to handle. There is absolutely no way I can be everywhere at once and read every comment, even with the whole mod team. Adding a warning takes seconds, it's not that hard, I don't understand why it's such an issue.
I don't want to delete comments. I would rather do pretty much anything than have to resort to that. But I also don't want people to feel they can't come here because they don't know what to expect, and if everyone just uses their judgement and leaves warnings where necessary, then there's no issue.
And as for What if it's a story told from the point of view of someone who would notice that feature of Charles first and think of him that way after?, I'm only asking you to warn for it. That's all.